Go-givers and Go-getters

The days of go-getters are counted.

The go-givers are in.

The generosity, humility, love and humanity always find a way to win.

Did you ever notice how our media promote and highlight mainly the negativity they can find and make us almost forget there is an equal amount of positivity in the world too, if not more? But thanks to the internet and the digital world people now have more control over the news they hear, they can choose what to follow and filter through the clutter. Now it is really up to us as what we allow to receive and how we react to it.

We are made to believe there is much egoism in the world. That the people are too self-centered and too into themselves and their own well-being, they forget to give. That they are only concentrated on how to get. We are almost forced to forget that we are all connected and need each other equally in order to have a healthy balanced life.

Our planet is an opera of us working together as a team.


For some odd reason and for some time I used to think I need to be careful about my feelings, whom to show my heart or whom to give my attention or even offer my friendship, like I was lacking it in amount. Like I had to assure myself to get it first before I could give, just to make sure I still have enough for next time. Like people or the world owed me something. How terribly wrong I was. But with continuous training my mind to achieve certain mindset soon I learned that:

You need to GIVE before you can GET.

And there is no mathematics in how much. There are no rules. Now the giving without a reason is the only thing on my mind. It doesn’t matter if I don’t get it back. After all, I know I will do, but maybe in a different form and by someone else and when I least expect it. It simply is not an issue.

You never know how it is going to turn out, so give give give.

Children are hardly counting, they are pure and they use their higher senses much better than we, adults. They and animals are much better at expressing love, they wanna give love, they feel love back in everything and anyone. They involve heart and feelings more than they involve a corrupted head. And they are who we “big people” have so much to learn from and get inspiration from. Not to be scared of giving too much of ourselves. You can never give too much, love too much or you can never respect too much.

Love as if you have never been hurt before and give as if you were going to get everything 3-times over tomorrow.



But be aware of the takers. Takers have hardly any limits, therefore the givers need to set them. The most successful people have understood it and know how to apply it. Although once the takers take it all, there’ll be no more for them to take and sooner or later they will get bored with it anyway.

The days of go-getters are always counted. The go-givers are in power now. They have the power to change the course, they have the power to change the world. Not the takers. The takers may eat better but the givers sleep better. The takers also give, but only if their’s a lucrative reward in all their giving. The givers also take, but only if they have to.

Takers and givers are defined by their reactions in life.

Pick your friends and your environments wisely, as people can equally drain you as they can inspire you.

The days of takers are over.

In are the givers.




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Stanislava Hale
Vždycky som sa “hádzala do vody a merala hĺbku” doslova aj metaforicky. Mám za sebou dlhú cestu v testovaní mojich schopností a viem, že nemám limit, že sa dá dosiahnuť všetko, čo si zaumienim. No a keď to dokážem ja, môžeš to dokázať aj Ty a ešte lepšie. Môj príbeh si prečítajte TU >>

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